@kogasana i wasnt looking to start a fight with you and i really wish you could unblock me. i feel like i didn’t have enough time to make my feelings clear and i think you may have some misunderstanding about what my stance actually is

if you don’t want to talk about this anymore thats fine, its up to you, but we’re on the same side ie. wanting teens and children to be safe, so id like it if there wasnt any bad blood between us 

and i wasnt trying to accuse you of being a rape apologist, i was just trying to say that i think that when the focus is on attraction rather than on the actions of the adult, then it has some bad implications which can lead to other consequences